Understanding Childhood Aggression
May 18, 2021“Young children and immature children only have the ability and the capacity to experience and feel one emotion at a time.”
This week on the 3D Parent Podcast, we are going to be discussing childhood aggression. Now, there are so many aspects to this topic I’m sure we will be re-visiting it, but today I just wanted to identify what it is, where it comes from, and how to handle it in the moment and prevent it in the future.
Throughout this episode, we’ll discuss language you can use with your child to help them work through their emotions and depersonalize restraining them if necessary. I will also provide you examples of different ways you can channel that aggressive energy into more productive activities, such as sports, martial arts, and just fun activities like popping bubble wrap.
I can’t wait to share these tangible tips with you, they will really be game changers for you if you have a child that struggles with this.
Things You Will Learn
Episode Resources
Rest, Play, Grow- by Dr. Deborah MacNamara
Hold on to Your Kids- by Dr. Gordon Neufeld
Quotes From Episode 8
“Young children and immature children only have the ability and the capacity to experience and feel one emotion at a time.”
“[Your child] wants to bypass that [sadness]. It is too vulnerable for them. They want to kind of say, yep, I’m not going to feel that sadness …”
“What you’re doing is you’re basically not allowing them to distract themselves in this mode of aggression. You’re getting your child to basically face the thing they don’t want to face.”
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