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Summer Success During COVID-19 Pandemic

May 18, 2021

 

This may have not been the summer you or your kids had envisioned for yourselves, but that does not mean it needs to be terrible. Make it a summer to remember for you and your family.”

 

This week on the 3D Parent Podcast, I’m going to share some fun ideas for summer activities that you can enjoy with your kids even with the restrictions brought on by the pandemic. Plus, most of the ideas that I will share are accessible and very affordable.

 

If you have a child who is disappointed by the cancellation of their summer activities, then this episode is definitely for you. Aside from the summer activities I’m going to share, we’re also going to discuss how these activities can help parents navigate the stress of this difficult situation.

 

I hope the topics that we will discuss here will help you plan your summer activities and make it one of the most memorable summers for you and your family, despite the difficulties caused by COVID-19.

 


 

Things You Will Learn

[00:58] Summer is right around the corner but due to the pandemic happening in the world, most summer plans are getting canceled. With this episode, my goal is to provide some creative ideas to save this year’s summer despite the pandemic going on. The ideas I’m going to present are budget-friendly and doable even if your home city still has restrictions in place.

[03:59] The first suggestion I have for COVID-19 Summer Survival is to craft your very own summer calendar. It’s going to serve as a representation that your kids’ summer is not entirely ruined. It’s also a fun checklist that can motivate your kids throughout summer. In relation to the calendar, you can also make a summer bucket list where everyone in the family gets to add activities of their own choosing.

[06:23] Maintaining a structured daily routine is beneficial not only for your kids but also for your whole household, especially when dealing with stressful situations. In addition, incorporating routine is a great way to regulate your kids’ behavior and to maintain organization and clear decision-making within the household. Plus, it ultimately reduces power struggles along the way and makes rule-enforcement much easier. One simple step you can incorporate into your family’s routine is setting up your kids’ sleeping schedules, including naps and wake-up times.

[09:23] Some parents may feel pressured to incorporate academic activities into their summer plans to avoid the “summer slump.” And while that is not a bad idea, it can be a huge stressor for both the parents and their children. Remember that it is a completely valid choice if you decide to take a break from academics and just focus on strengthening your family relationships. 

[10:57] Teachers are equipped with techniques and strategies for assessing kids at the beginning of each school year. So you don’t need to worry about your kids missing out on academic milestones because when your kids return to school, your child will catch up with the help of their teachers.

[11:22] But if you think that incorporating academic time into your routine works great for your child, you might want to consider virtual camps or online tutorials. There are a variety of online classes that you and your child can choose from.

[13:21] Another idea that I have for the summer is to conceptualize weekly themes. Have your kids pick out a theme for the week and try to include your children in the planning process. You can plan relevant activities to your themes, but be careful not to overwhelm yourself with the process. You can only create as many activities as you yourself feel capable of overseeing and enjoying. You can also assign activities for your kids to do on their own.

[16:19] My talented friend Julie also shared her summer idea on our private 3DP Lounge Facebook group. Going back to academics, some parents may find it helpful to incorporate learning time within their routine. But it may be overwhelming for some, and what you could do is limit the learning activity to one subject per day. You could have math Monday, Tale Tuesday, Writing Wednesday, and so on.

[20:00] The next idea is to go old-school. Let your kids run through sprinklers, have balloon fights, build forts, play bubbles, and other classic summer activities. Finding inspiration in summer camp activities might also be helpful. There are a lot of ideas to choose from if you decide to go old-school and, hopefully, this can relieve a lot of the pressure you may be feeling to come up with new ideas for summer activities.

[22:06] You could also look into bigger projects for your family. For example, building a treehouse or assembling mini-gardens in your backyard. This way, children will have a huge accomplishment at the end of the summer that they can be really proud of. Kids could also set up their own store, like a bake sale or jewelry shop, with contactless pick-up and drop-off points. And maybe a portion of their profit could go to charity. This could be a great opportunity for kids to learn the value of charity.

[24:13] For my last suggestion, think about creating a COVID-19 summer time capsule. Maybe have your kids write a letter to their future self, and include pages from newspapers and other special memorabilia from this summer. After you get everything gathered together, set up a time when this time capsule will be reopened, maybe 10 to 20 years from now. This is a really healthy way for your kids to process the difficult feelings they are having while facing the pandemic. It can help your child realize that there will be an end to this pandemic, that we will all eventually move on and that in the future, we will get to fully enjoy our summers.

[26:00] This is a challenging time especially for our kids because aside from the uncertainties brought about by the pandemic, they are also experiencing summer in a manner they did not envision at all.  However, this doesn’t mean that summer has to suck! As a parent, you have the capability and responsibility to make it a summer to remember for you and your family, pandemic or not.

 

  


 

 

Quotes From Episode 35

“Put in some type of routine every day. School, for many of us, has provided a structure and a predictable routine for the day, which really benefits kids. This helped in a lot of ways and can help in many ways to regulate their behaviors. Routines do that for kids. And so I encourage you to create a routine for your summer days.”

“Do not overstress the academics. Some people have really struggled with remote home learning, and it's caused a lot of stress for them and their families, and some of them have already dialed in and said, ‘You know, we're tapping out. We've done all we can do. We need to just keep the peace at home and keep things flowing. And we're going to put our focus on our kids and our relationships.’ That's a completely valid choice. Kids need that emotional rest that they get from their relationships and their parents being less stressed out. And if academic peace is needed right now, don't beat yourself up over that.”

“It would feel so great to know that you have done something for a charity that is near and dear to your family's heart. It would feel good knowing that charity can really benefit from the work of your family.”

“Bucket lists are a really healthy way for your kids to process the feelings that they're feeling right now. It’s also helpful in allowing your child to accept and realize that this is not forever. There is a future where this pandemic is not something that we're dealing with. There will be an end to this. We're not going to be stuck in this mode forever.”

“This may have not been the summer you or your kids had envisioned for yourselves, but that does not mean it needs to be terrible. Make it a summer to remember for you and your family.”

 

 


 

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About Your Host

I’m Beaven Walters, your host and guide on this crazy and fulfilling journey as a parent.

As a certified parent coach, parent educator and mom of 4 children, I am passionate about helping parents navigate the tough stuff while maintaining dignity, direction and deep connection in your family relationships.  I have spent over 10 years teaching in a variety of educational settings with multiple age groups, and now I am delighted to bring those experiences to you at home. Throughout this podcast, we will cover topics such as tantrums, sibling conflict, screen time overload and transitioning into the teenage years.

My goal is to provide you with tools that help inform, empower and boost your confidence as a parent so you can make the best decisions possible for you and your family.  Parenting is challenging, but you don’t have to do it alone.

I am here to guide you through the 3D Parent approach to parenting, so you can stop struggling and start celebrating all of the time you have with your children.