Encouraging Motivation With Kids
May 18, 2021“If you're trying to force motivation by nagging them, threatening them with punishments or giving them bribes to try and get them to be motivated, you're not actually helping them develop this intrinsic self-motivation, which is really key here.”
This week on the 3D Parent Podcast, we are going to talk about cultivating intrinsic motivation in your children to accomplish a task. I want you to keep in mind, this is different than nagging them, or threatening them to take something away or bribing them. This is helping them learn to motivate themselves to accomplish necessary tasks or goals.
Throughout the podcast, I will provide you with some direction on how to help guide them to their own motivation. We’ll walk through helping them find interests and passions, and then setting goals that may involve those interests and passions. We will also talk about helping them find motivation for things they may not want to do, like chores.
Things You Will Learn
Quotes From Episode 9
“You cannot place motivation inside your child. This is something that has to develop internally … I'm talking about that internal motivation, that intrinsic motivation that we want to see in our kids.”
“The importance of having this screen free, under scheduled, downtime where you have not provided a solution is that it's going to lead to play on the other side. Inspiration usually follows boredom.”
“If you're trying to force motivation by nagging them, threatening them with punishments or giving them bribes to try and get them to be motivated, you're not actually helping them develop this intrinsic self-motivation, which is really key here.”
Let's work together! I provide 1:1 support for parents motivated to make positive changing in their parenting and gain confidence and increase fulfillment in their role as parents. If this sounds like it might be what you've been looking for, book a free consultation today.
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