Encouraging Empathy In Children
May 18, 2021
“We as parents, as our children's first teachers, we're the ones that can do the work to plant those seeds of empathy for our own children.”
This week on the 3D Parent Podcast, I'm going to share some tips that you can implement in your own family to create an environment of empathy. I am also going to talk about things that might be getting in the way of your child's development of empathy.
Some of the topics covered in this episode include:
- The definition of empathy.
- Why empathy can't be taught and why children don't have the concept of empathy at an early age.
- Tips on how to create an environment of empathy.
- Four steps from Dr. Deborah MacNamara to keep our children's hearts soft.
While children are born primed with empathy, it takes a loving and supporting environment to help develop those empathetic instincts within them. The key to understanding empathy is to accept that they cannot be taught. It is a delicate blend of children's innate capacity, environment, and upbringing. So I encourage parents to reevaluate the environment where they raise their child and analyze whether it is a viable environment for empathy to grow and flourish.
Things You Will Learn
Episode Resources
Center for Building a Culture of Empathy
Developmental Science Translated into Practical Love - Deborah Macnamara
Quotes From Episode 47
“You can't teach empathy, but you certainly can lay the groundwork for the seeds of empathy to grow and flourish.”
“Empathy requires the ability to hold on to multiple perspectives at the same time. So before the age of five, kids can't do this developmentally. They're too busy developing their own sense of self. And that's what they should be doing. That is their job at that age.”
“Empathy is complicated. It requires the ability to take another person's feelings on as one's own in an effort to understand that person, to make sense of that person, to connect with that person.”
“As a parent, you need to accept and welcome and support all the feelings that your child may have and make it safe for them to feel those emotions that are flowing through them.”
“As a parent, you need to know when it's time to leave. Because it is our responsibility to protect our child against experiences that are too much to bear.”
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