Parent Coaching: Fears At Bedtime
May 18, 2021“It is important to kind of say, I can take this. I can help you. Oh yeah, worries are hard. I'm in this with you so that they kind of feel like this sense of security. Like I don't have to handle this all on my own.”
This week on the 3D Parent Podcast, I take you through a live parent coaching example with Sara Dean. Sara Dean is a mom, wife and the creator and host of the Shameless Mom Academy Podcast. After experiencing her own identity crisis after becoming a mom, Sara has found her passion and purpose rebuilding her identity and helping women, especially moms, own their space and put themselves first.
On the podcast we discuss her story of parenting so far, and one of her current challenges as a parent: addressing fears at bedtime. As you listen, you will hear Sara discuss in detail her son’s fears and behaviors, and then I will help her work through some ways she can help ease her sons fears and help him bridge the separation gap overnight.
Things You Will Learn
Episode Resources
When Saying Goodnight is Hard:20 Ways to Bridge the Nighttime Distance
Quotes From Episode 10
“I think that for a long time I thought that I would mourn things as he got older, especially because he's an only child. And what I found is that I keep getting this reinforcement that it just keeps getting better and that I don't need to mourn the past ... “
“It is important to kind of say, I can take this. I can help you. Oh yeah, worries are hard. I'm in this with you so that they kind of feel like this sense of security. Like I don't have to handle this all on my own.”
“[Beaven] Parenting is a big, humbling experience. [Sara] So this is the first thing I’ve done that I don’t always feel like I’m really good at.”
Let's work together! I provide 1:1 support for parents motivated to make positive changing in their parenting and gain confidence and increase fulfillment in their role as parents. If this sounds like it might be what you've been looking for, book a free consultation today.
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